In 1965, Neil Simon’s play The Odd Couple opened on Broadway. It ran for 966 consecutive performances, making it one of the most successful and popular plays in the history of Broadway. In fact it was so successful that its spinoffs included a movie and a television series. It featured two main characters. Felix Unger was the neurotic neat freak news writer going through a divorce, who moved in with Oscar Madison, a messy sportswriter. The habits of the two men could not be farther apart if they tried. They had nothing in common except that both were journalists.
We have talked before about the gospel of John being a book of signs. It is also a book of discourses. The discourse is another method that John uses to make Jesus known to us. This Scripture passage contains the first discourse and it is between Jesus and Nicodemus.
As we look at Jesus early in his ministry and at Nicodemus the Pharisee, we could easily call them the odd couple. Except for their devout love of God, they have little in common. And yet, much as Felix and Oscar did in their New York apartment, Jesus and Nicodemus become forever bound in our memory, for it is through their discourse that we are introduced to what it means to be born again. It is a strange and wonderful discourse that reminds us that to think and talk of things of the kingdom of heaven is to wander in a place in which we have no experience. It is a place where we come on faith. Even the faith which brings us there is not of our own making.
Nicodemus is one of those characters that I wish we knew more about. He only appears in John’s gospel and,including the discourse in John 3, he appears only three times. In John 7: 50, people are coming before the Sanhedrin and asking about Jesus. As he is being roundly condemned, Nicodemus courageously speaks up and asks why Jesus should not be given audience to see what he has to say. Much later in John 19, Nicodemus shows up with seventy five pounds worth of myrrh and aloe—about three thousand dollars worth of valuable spices and gums, to use in the preparation of Jesus’ crucified body. This is all we know of this very interesting man.
We do know some things about Nicodemus. He was a Pharisee. There were only about six thousand Pharisees in all of Israel . To become a Pharisee, one had to vow publicly to live by all the laws of God as long as he lived. The Pharisees, whether or not they were misguided, were the most devout believers of God in the entire nation.
Nicodemus was a ruler of the Jews, a member of the Sanhedrin. Think of this as the supreme court of Israel.1 Even in the days of Roman rule, the Sanhedrin, composed of only seventy members, possessed great power. It had jurisdiction over every Jew in the world. One of its responsibilities was to determine false prophets, and it was for this reason the Sanhedrin became so interested in Jesus. They had seen plenty of charlatans before and they thought Jesus was just one more in a long line.
Nicodemus was almost certainly a man of considerable wealth. The value of the burial spices he brought to be used upon Jesus is ample proof of that.
And yet, for all the honors that had been bestowed upon Nicodemus, for all the wealth and comforts that he had amassed, for all the respect that he enjoyed among his people, it was the supreme court justice who showed up in the dead of night to seek an audience with the young carpenter from Galilee. Sound familiar? No matter how far we come, no matter how many mountains we climb, until we meet with the Master, we are still puzzled, still searching, still looking back over our shoulders while we climb that next mountain, seeking that elusive truth that brings peace to our lives. I suspect that Nicodemus was just such a man.
Contrast this to Jesus. According to the chronology in John’s gospel, Jesus has performed one miracle, one sign, the changing of the water to wine at a wedding feast in Cana . He has come to Jerusalem and started a small riot in the temple courts. I’m guessing that he has done some other things because Nicodemus refers to signs in the plural when talking about Jesus’ acts. Nevertheless, it is early in Jesus’ ministry. He has followers, but many of them are themselves transients. He has no home. He has no possessions. He has no verifiable source of income. If Jesus were here today, he would be in danger of being arrested for vagrancy. If Nicodemus is like the all together Felix Unger, certainly Jesus can play the eccentric Oscar Madison, who really doesn’t know what’s in the refrigerator, much less worry about going to the grocery store.
The parties are polite. Nicodemus refers to the young, unschooled man as Rabbi. This is high praise and very respectful. Reciprocating, Jesus refers to Nicodemus as the teacher of Israel . Twice, Nicodemus asks “How,” honestly trying to grasp the principle of rebirth that Jesus is teaching. Three times, Jesus says to him: “Truly, truly.” If he were Charles Stanley, it would have been “Listen, now listen.” Jesus wants him to understand, but sees that the chasm is wide. The discourse is serious. Nicodemus reaches for the truth, while Jesus holds it out gently, waiting for the pupil to grasp that which is impossible to hold except on faith.
Jesus says we have to be born again to see the kingdom of God . He says that birth must be of water and spirit to enter that kingdom. Nicodemus reaches and reaches…and still, he cannot grasp. Jesus reminds him, almost tenderly, I think, that talking about things that come from heaven is hard to do for us folks on earth. Jesus has come from heaven. He says without words at this point: you have to believe that I come from heaven. The words will come just a few verses later in John 3:16. But first, Nicodemus must reach deep inside to find the truth. The unspoken words hang there in the air, waiting for Nicodemus’ response, waiting for our response. You have to believe to understand. When you understand, your belief will make sense. When you understand, the water is spiritual and the spirit is earthy and, well, you see, these things are of heaven. You just have to believe. This is the quintessential problem of contemporary thought. We are losing our ability to see that which is not physical. Contemporary “wisdom” tells us that we must see the empirical evidence or something does not exist. If it is spiritual, it is not real. So goes the argument in our “post-religious” society.
Poor Nick. Is it the water of the womb? Is it the water of baptism? How are we born again? Nicodemus wants to know. Jesus’ words hearken back to the prophet Ezekiel, prophesying to the house of Israel and to God’s people that God will sprinkle clean water on us and we shall be clean… and he will give us a new heart, and a new spirit will be put within us. [Ezek 36: 25-27] . This is the new birth of which Jesus speaks. It comes from God and brings us to God. It is God-breathed. Let me say that again. God will sprinkle clean water on us and we shall be clean… and he will give us a new heart, and a new spirit will be put within us.. This is the new birth of which Jesus speaks. It comes from God and brings us to God. It is God-breathed. Jesus reminds us that as surely as the wind is real, regardless of the fact that we cannot see it, so is rebirth through the Holy Spirit. The Greek word for Spirit is pneuma, which means breath, wind, spirit. It is the same word used in the Hebrew in Genesis to describe how God breathed life into Adam. God-breathed. That is the “How” that Nicodemus is looking for.
Nicodemus came to Jesus in the darkness. Perhaps he came then because it was the only time that two busy men could have a real conversation. Perhaps it is because many rabbis believed that nighttime was the best time to study the law. Perhaps it is because Nicodemus did not want to be observed conversing with this man Jesus in the light of day, for this was truly the dialogue of an odd couple. In the inside out world of the kingdom of heaven, it was the “insider” Nicodemus who was the odd man out. Whatever the reason, the darkness in which that discourse began must surely have turned into a dawning for this man of God.
Nicodemus is a lot like you and me. He was a seeker. He sought the truth and then tried to sort it out in his own life. Jesus told him it was hard to see heaven from earth, but there is a way. You know, when I think about odd couples, I can’t think of anything more odd than the Holy Spirit camping out in me. And yet, that is exactly what Jesus was trying to explain to Nicodemus and to us as well. We, like Nicodemus, must find that water is a symbol and that the work of the Holy Spirit is more real than flesh itself. It is God’s breath coming into our lives and our hearts. But first, we must believe. When we do, we can look into the kingdom and we will have eyes to see. He promised.
1 Barclay, William, Daily Study Bible Series, John vol.1